  Divorce Is Not Your Ending.
It Is Your Becoming.
What Will You Do With This Divorce?
Rebuild and Learn How to Live Again.
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If you’ve been walking around looking “fine” while feeling lost, afraid, stuck, frustrated, hurt, angry or completely overwhelmed inside after separation or divorce, the More of Me coaching program is for you.
Because being on your own doesn’t mean you’re broken. Being on your own means you’re at the beginning.Â
The beginning of healing. The beginning of peace. The beginning of remembering you.
More of Me is a deep healing and empowerment journey for women rebuilding life after separation or divorce — at your own pace, on your own time, with support that meets you right where you are. You’ll learn how to:
- quiet the mental chaos and rebuild self-trust
- create emotional safety, stability, and inner strength
- reclaim your joy, voice, and sense of identity
- design a life that reflects who you are now
- release old patterns, fear, guilt, and people-pleasing
- move from just surviving to actually living again
Who the More of Me Coaching Program for:
- Women separated, divorcing, or recently divorced
- Women in long-term unhealthy or draining relationships
- Women who feel stuck, lost, afraid, or disconnected from themselves
- Women rebuilding their homes, finances, identity, and peace
- Women who are ready to feel alive again — not just get through the day
Through short, powerful sessons and guided reflection, you’ll learn how to hear your own voice again, set boundaries without guilt, release the need to “perform” for others, and design a life that feels safe, free, and aligned with who you truly are.Â
More of Me doesn’t tell you whether to stay, leave, or date again — it helps you stop abandoning yourself, and gives you space to find yourself again so every decision you make comes from a place of clarity, worthiness, and power.
Through honest teaching, reflective exercises, and a supportive community, you’ll do the deep inner work to release what no longer serves you and step into a life that feels more aligned, more truthful, and more you.
More of Me was created and facilitated by Tirza Barnes, a coach, facilitator, and woman who has rebuilt her own life after an unhealthy marriage. Throughout the program, Tirza shares the tools, strategies, and truths that have helped countless women move from pain and confusion to clarity, confidence, and deep self-respect.
"The program has impacted my awareness, understanding, and perspective of self to another level. On this journey, I’ve learned that even though I claimed to be a self-aware woman, I lacked forgiveness and patience, allowing the lower self to take over my thoughts when situations weren’t going how I would have hoped.
With the perspective and tools gained, I no longer allow myself to remain in self-doubt or a negative mind frame. I now focus on cultivating positive energy in my life, preparing my mind, body, and spirit to the good around and within me. This program has allowed me to be MORE of ME."
Kimberly Barnes
"Through this program's insightful guidance and the weekly community coaching sessions, I identified several emotional blocks holding me back from being the best person I could be.
I recognized that doing the work to identify the origins of my self-sabotaging thoughts and then letting them go was necessary to create a better life, be happy, and pursue activities that align with being more of me."
Michelle Rivera
When Your Old Life Ends, Who Are You Now?
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When your old life ends, a new one is quietly beginning—whether you asked for it or not. If you’re navigating separation or divorce, stuck in a draining relationship, or simply exhausted from carrying everyone else and abandoning yourself, this is your invitation to pause and ask:Â
- Who am I becoming now?Â
- Who do you want to be six months from now—more confident, more peaceful, more honest with yourself?Â
- What kind of love, home, and life do you want to create if you stop letting the past define you?
In this program, you’ll learn how to find your worth outside of any relationship and ground your happiness in who you are. You’ll build the clarity and courage to make healthy changes—whether that means leaving, rebuilding, or finally choosing yourself in a new way. You’ll begin to unshackle yourself from the belief that success or stability requires a partner and instead build an inner foundation that’s yours, no matter your relationship status. And if you’ve always been last on your own list, you’ll practice prioritizing your well-being and desires even while juggling kids, work, bills, and healing. The past is part of your story—but it doesn’t have to be the author of your future.
Navigating New Realities After Divorce
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You’re not alone. My own journey through this season of transition has been a powerful catalyst for growth, healing, and deep self-understanding.
I’ve been where you are — facing hard decisions, emotional waves, identity shifts, and moments of uncertainty — yet continuing to rise with resilience and renewal. Every challenge, every doubt, and every breakthrough toward self-discovery has shaped the path I now offer to you.
“More of Me” is not just a program — it is a living reflection of my lessons, my healing, and the shared experiences of hundreds of women I’ve had the honor to coach. Women who, like you, chose themselves… women who desired MORE from life, more from love, and more from who they are becoming.
This program is your invitation to:
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Release the shame, grief, and guilt tied to divorceÂ
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Stabilize your emotional worldÂ
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Rebuild your identity beyond the marriageÂ
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Heal from internalized blame and self-doubt
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Shift from fear and scarcity after divorceÂ
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Reclaim your voice, needs, and boundariesÂ
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Build a life that feels like yours againÂ
Are you ready to commit to the work necessary to achieve true self-empowerment and harness your full potential?
Just like I have journeyed to a place of inner strength and freedom you too can position yourself to create the life you love.
From My Journey to Your Life,
Tirza
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"A New Chapter Begins With You"
Many women find “More of Me” right in the middle of a major relationship shift — separation, divorce, or the quiet decision to finally leave a situation that’s been hurting them for years.
If that’s you, this course will help you:
- Reclaim your identity after being someone’s partner, fixer, peacekeeper, or “strong one” for so long.
- Untangle guilt, shame, and “What if I had just…” so you can move forward with more compassion and less self-blame.
- Release unhealthy attachments to old relationship patterns, people-pleasing, and chasing external validation.
- Rebuild self-trust so you feel confident making decisions about love, money, parenting, and your future.
- Imagine a life beyond the breakup — one where you are not defined by what ended, but by what you’re creating now.
You don’t need to have it all figured out. You just need to be willing to choose more of you than you’ve been allowing.
"I've truly been transformed by the "More of Me" program. I've discovered the power of simply being present and understanding. I've learned to cope with my emotions more effectively and navigate challenges.This course is a guiding light. It showed me that personal growth is about self-awareness, understanding, and embracing the discomfort of growth."
Valerie Hopkins
Inside
"More of Me"
More of Me is a 5-week rebuilding experience for separated and divorced women.
In just five weeks, you’ll rebuild your life with live coaching, a safe confidential community, and the tools to stop spiraling—and start living again.
When you join More of Me, you get:
- A 5-week cohort for separated and divorced women who are ready to rebuild and start living again
- Weekly live coaching sessions with me to help you process what’s happening and take aligned action
- A safe, intimate, and confidential community where separated and divorced women can be real, be held, and rebuild without judgment.
- One private 1:1 coaching session to work through your specific situation (co-parenting, identity shifts, fear, finances, boundaries, or emotional overwhelm)
- Five powerful modules focused on healing, self-trust, identity, confidence, and creating your next chapter
- 25 pre-recorded lessons (audio + video) to guide you between coaching sessions
- 50+ practical tools and techniques to calm your mind, rebuild stability, and strengthen your emotional resilience
- A 60-page workbook with guided prompts and exercises to help you integrate the work
- Three bonus lessons to accelerate your growth and keep your momentum strong
- Lifetime access to the program materials so you can revisit support whenever you need it
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- Unlimited Lifetime Access to the Course: Revisit the materials anytime, enabling you to grow with life's changes and refresh your understanding.
"The program's comprehensiveness is remarkable. It delves into every facet— from the struggles we experience to empowerment, culminating with lessons on manifestation.
The program served as a powerful reminder that faith is a guiding force in my life journey.
Tirza radiates as a bright light and is a phenomenal coach and teacher! The depth of the content, coupled with Tirza's presence, has made this learning enlightening."
Wunmi Onile-Ere
Five ModulesÂ
MODULE 1
Laying the Foundations of Your Transformation
The opening week of "More of Me" is a deep dive into understanding the essence of your aspirations and the foundational steps toward achieving them. Through three enlightening lessons, you will embark on a path of self-awareness and clarity:
- Discovering Your Inner Yearning: Examine the roots of your desire for growth and change. This module helps you understand the motivations behind your longing for more, providing a clear direction for your journey ahead.
- Recognizing Your Readiness for Transformation: Learn to identify the signs that you're prepared for a significant shift in your life. These lessons empower you to acknowledge your readiness to embrace expansive changes.
- Aligning with Divine Timing: Explore the concept of divine order and timing in unfolding your life's path. This lesson offers insights into trusting the timing of your life's events, encouraging patience and faith in the process.
MODULE 2
Turn Setbacks Into Comebacks
Life's journey is filled with ups and downs, but within each challenge lies a seed of potential. This module is dedicated to helping you cultivate that potential, transforming setbacks into catalysts for growth and resilience. Here's what we'll explore together:
- Embracing Your Struggles: Begin by acknowledging the challenges you've faced, recognizing the strength it takes to confront them. This lesson is about opening up, acknowledging and becoming free from setbacks.Â
- Cultivating Resilience: Discover your innate ability to rebound from adversity, learning from each setback and moving forward with a renewed sense of purpose.Â
- Strategies for Transformation: Equip yourself with five transformative strategies designed to guide you towards embracing your authentic self.Â
MODULE 3
Unlock the Power of Letting Go
Discover the liberation that comes from releasing behaviors, patterns, and tendencies that no longer serve your highest self. This module is about healing from your fears and triggers, choosing to let go of what holds you back to make space for what moves you forward. You'll explore:
- Accepting Surrender as Empowerment: Learn that surrender is not defeat but a courageous step towards reclaiming your power.Â
- Self-Limiting Beliefs: Break free from the chains of doubt that restrict your potential and learn to see yourself in a new, empowering light.
- Feelings of Inadequacy: Challenge and change the narrative around your worth, embracing your inherent value and strengths.
- Toxic Thought Patterns: Identify and transform toxic thought patterns that cloud your judgment and hinder your happiness.
MODULE 4
Your Path to True Self-Discovery
This module guides you through an enlightening process to differentiate between the authentic self and the ego, learn the art of self-love, and release the attachments that limit your potential. The lessons are a deep dive into:
- Distinguishing Your True Self from the Ego: Learn to recognize and separate your authentic self from the ego's narratives, enabling a clear path to self-awareness and genuine self-expression.
- Cultivating Deep Self-Love: Through practical exercises and reflective practices, discover the art of loving yourself unconditionally, fostering a personal well-being that illuminates every aspect of your life.
- Releasing Limiting Attachments: Identify and let go of the beliefs, habits, and relationships that hinder your growth, embracing the lightness and freedom that comes with detachment.
MODULE 5
Master the Art of Manifestation
This module goes beyond conventional goal-setting; it's a deep dive into the art of manifestation, teaching you how to align your energetic vibration with the life you aspire to live. Through practical lessons, personal testimonies, and guided practices, you'll discover:
- The Power of Focused Thought and Intention: Learn how to clarify your desires across all facets of life — health, wealth, love, career, personal growth, and spirituality — and bring them into existence through the power of focused intention.
- Real-Life Manifestation Success Stories: Be inspired by real-life examples, including my own journey, showcasing the transformative power of manifestation. Hear firsthand how focusing on abundance, fulfillment, and love can lead to tangible, life-changing results.
- Boosting Confidence and Vibrational State: Understand the critical role of confidence and your vibrational state in attracting what you desire. Learn strategies to maintain a high vibrational frequency, creating a magnet for your aspirations.
"One of the highlights for me was the sense of community fostered by the group check-ins, where Tirza's coaching was instrumental in enhancing our understanding of the program. It felt like a much-needed nourishment for my growth, reminding me of the significance of embracing progress over perfection. This program pushed me to reevaluate my life choices and offered the guidance I needed to move forward."
Women Thrive in Community
“More of Me” is not just a program, its a journey of self discovery, empowerment ,and transformation with a blend of expert guidance, interactive exercises ,and community support.
Though bi-weekly group coaching sessions, you can partner with other women ready to take charge of their personal development.
In a safe and loving virtual space, you’ll address the unique experience of women learning individual insight and practical strategies to help you redefine your life’s trajectory.
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"This course allowed me to dig deep into my past, to confront those hidden triggers that have been holding me back. It provided a safe and supportive space for me to explore these unresolved issues and find ways to address them.
Through this process, I gained valuable insights into the negative thought patterns that have been sabotaging my personal growth. I've come to understand how these thoughts have been a roadblock to my progress, keeping me from embracing my authentic self and realizing my full potential."
Kyiesha Coachman
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this program only for separated or divorced women?
How do I know this program is for me?
How long is the "More of Me " Course and what is the format of the lessons?
Can you provide more details about the bi-weekly community coaching sections?
What if I am concerned that I won't have time to commit?
Are there any specific requirements for enrolling in this course?
Do you offer refunds?
"This course has exceeded my expectations!Â
It heightened my thinking and consciousness as I gained clarity on some of the most challenging questions we have as human beings and as women. Tirza isn’t afraid to be transparent about her life experiences, letting her audience understand that while
you face challenges and difficulties along your journey, you can still gravitate towards happiness by releasing what no longer serves your highest good or your soul’s purpose.
More of Me is filled with wisdom, clarity, and transparency, offering liberation for all women ready to elevate themselves to the next level."
Shree Marrajh
TERMS OF USE
In order to establish and maintain the safety and sanctity of sessions, participants are asked to maintain confidentiality guidelines. Please be aware that the information, recommendations and opinions expressed throughout the program are for general information only and should not be viewed as professional advice or as an endorsement of any product, service, opinion or method. Participants are asked to maintain confidentiality by not sharing the information, stories, experiences presented by other attendees.
To honor the safety, privacy, and sacredness of this space, all participants are expected to uphold confidentiality. This means that any stories, experiences, personal information, or identities shared by others during the program must not be shared outside of this space.
Please note that all information, recommendations, discussions, and opinions shared throughout this program are for general informational and educational purposes only. They should not be considered legal, medical, mental health, or financial advice, and they should not be used as a substitute for professional services or consultation. Nothing presented in this program is intended as an endorsement of any product, service, opinion, or method.
By participating, you agree to respect the privacy of others and maintain the confidentiality of what is shared.
Tirza Motivates, LLC requests that all participants, and/or viewers of session recordings, refrain from infringing on intellectual property and materials associated with Tirza Motivates, LLC and co-facilitators, including the sharing, forwarding, facilitation or replication of intellectual property or information presented to individuals and groups by Tirza Motivates, LLC to other unauthorized parties/entities
