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Rebuilder Starter Kit
Separation or divorce can make you feel unsteady, emotionally raw, and unsure of who you are now. This free Starter Kit gives you a clear starting point—so you can stop spiraling and start rebuilding your life and becoming More of You.
What you’ll get inside (5 tools):
1. Rebuild Readiness Quiz — know your rebuild stage + what to focus on next
2. Shame-to-Truth Reframe — stop self-blame and come back to your power.
3. Missing Them vs. Missing Love — what to do when the quiet hits hard
4. Parenting Guilt Release Sheet — trade guilt spirals for grounded repair
5. Rebuild Checklist — simple steps you can actually follow this week
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This is for You If:
- You feel emotionally exhausted and tired of “starting over” in your head
- You’re carrying shame, guilt, or self-blame you don’t know how to release
- Loneliness is showing up at night, on weekends, or after kid transitions
- You want a future that feels like you again
Hi, I’m Tirza — your Rebuild Coach.
I didn’t become passionate about this work from a distance. I became it by living it.
I’m a divorced mother of two who rebuilt my life after an unhealthy marriage and a messy divorce. There were days I felt strong — and days I felt like I was falling apart. I know what it’s like to keep functioning on the outside while privately wondering, “How do I start over? Who am I now?”
Over the last 26 years of working with women in transition, I’ve learned this: the hardest seasons don’t erase you — they reveal you. They show you what you’ve carried, what you’ve survived, and what you’re ready to reclaim.
This Starter Kit was created to support you in the in-between: when you’re trying to make sense of what happened, regulate your emotions, parent through pain, and take your next steps without losing yourself.
As you use these tools, I want you to remember: you’re not broken. You’re rebuilding. And you’re capable of moving out of this season discovering more of who you are — and learning how to live again.
Because divorce is not your ending. It’s your becoming.
With Love,
Tirza - Your Rebuild Coach
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Please note that all information, recommendations, discussions, materials, resources and opinions shared are for general informational and educational purposes only. They should not be considered legal, medical, mental health, or financial advice, and they should not be used as a substitute for professional services or consultation. Nothing presented in this program is intended as an endorsement of any product, service, opinion, or method.
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